slow week and spanking
gah what a slow week sexually speaking, conflicting schedules, working late a couple nights, friends from out of town etc have all conspired against us getting together. Oh yes did I ever mention my wife isn’t a morning person? hehe so morning time advances even if we have the time aren’t so welcome hehe.
It’s been since the weekend since we have had sex, I know that’s like five days. Ok Ok it may not be that bad to go without for five days. But we’ve been saving ourselves too so no masturbate solo or otherwise in five days either. You know how long a day can seem when a mere bit of flirty teasing from your wife over messenger has you hard and your balls swollen and tight for the rest of the day? Or how long being stuck at the office seems when I’ve teased back and my wife’s panties are soaked while she’s sitting at her desk?
Only to have things work against us so by the time we are together for more than five minutes it’s so late we just collapse into sleep when we hit the bed. I know, I know it’s such a terrible ordeal we must face, but we’re facing it together and I’m sure we’ll pull through it. And the weekend is here *crosses fingers* so I’m sure we’ll find some time for ourselves real soon. hehe if not then real soon you’ll all be treated to another elaborate masturbation fantasy while I take a shower.
On another note we’ve been discussing spankings lately. Hence the picture at the top of the page now. That strap is a bit more serious than what we’re talking about. I’ve never had a thing for smacking a girl’s bottom though I’ve been asked to during sex a few times and she really enjoyed it. I can understand the rush a bit of pain brings during sex, I certainly don’t mind a nip or two myself or my lip bit during a passionate kiss. I’ve even had my back tracked up from fingernails pretty good and never even noticed until the next day. However my wife likes a tiny bit of pain tossed into our love making unexpectedly. The neck biting, a nipple nip or a bit of a bite along her thigh while I go down on her. Nothing serious or real and it has to be while sex endorphins are really rushing too.
I do have to admit certain thoughts about this spanking thing do … ahhh things to me, nice hard things that throb a bit. But the thoughts I get are more along the lines of having her face down over my lap with my hard cock trapped between her bare tummy and myself. Her naked ass presenting it’s self for me and her squirming on top of my lap and hard-on. The actual smack part doesn’t do anything for me but the massage after sure does. I’m thinking a nice sharp slap that leaves her ass reddened with a hand print on one cheek and then just leaving my hand there massaging the spot that just got slapped, feeling the heat under my hand. Then as the sting fades away a light caress and maybe even a grope across her bare exposed wet pussy and ass. Follow that up with another stinging swat feeling her body jerk and shudder in my lap pressing my hard cock into her tummy, feeling her breasts sway against my thigh. Then massaging out the redness and sting again.
Hmm maybe this should be used as a punishment (hehe ya right, punishment that’s it) for our evening out next weekend (hopefully), if she steps outside her submissive guidelines she’s in for a spanking. It doesn’t really count as punishment if she’s looking forward to being punished though does it? Maybe surprise her let her think the punishment is her spanking but really make it orgasm denial, a secret punishment hehe. She doesn’t get to cum if she disobeys. Just teased repeatedly and brought real close over and over.
Hissandtell left me a good suggestion in my notes for our night out too. She may have to go out for the evening with a butt plug. I could have her bent over my lap and play with her ass and pussy until she’s nearly ready to cum then slowly push in the round end of a plug in her ass, watching her open up and accept it, feeling full and so close to an orgasm but not letting her before we go out. Then she gets to wear it all evening. Then just before her spanking I’m sure that she will try to earn on purpose I get to slowly pull it out while she is, laid across my lap again all open and exposed to my hand and touch.
Oh yes there are things about this whole scenario and set-up that do appeal to me. Dang I may end writing you all that masturbation fantasy sooner than I thought if I keep this up.
Question: What do you think about spankings? Giving? Receiving? How do they make you feel?
Take care all!
pw
